Cheating Spouse or Partner

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How can I find out if my husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on me? It can be very difficult to catch a cheating spouse or partner.

Understandably, most people do not know how to investigate a spouse. However, if you want to catch a cheater it often helps to understand the nature of the problem at hand.

Why is it so difficult to catch a cheating husband or wife? Catching a cheating partner is difficult because cheaters have an unfair advantage when it comes to infidelity. In fact, most infidelity goes undetected, or unproven, because the rules of the game tend to favor those who cheat.

Cheating spouses exploit their partner’s desire to trust. There are few hard and fast signs of infidelity.

Clues of infidelity vary widely from relationship to relationship, making it impossible to provide a useful list of behaviors that has a high degree of accuracy. In hindsight, however, the warnings signs always appear obvious.

In fact, there are so many telltale lists of infidelity cues that it is hard to know what to believe.  Given all the different lists that exist it helps to keep the following in mind.

Providing a list of the signs of cheating is often counterproductive. First, any given behavior is open to multiple interpretations. Does a spouse’s sudden interest in losing weight signal infidelity? Could it be due to some other reason?

Furthermore, looking for signs of infidelity tends to fuels one’s suspicions. For instance, does your spouse clear his or her call log after each call? Dwelling on such matters tends to make people more suspicious. The way some people generally handle their suspicion ends up helping a cheating spouse.

If you have a cheating spouse or partner Eye B King can assist you.

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